The Gift of Paying It Forward

Ken Tan

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When was the last time you received kindness from somebody? When was the last time you extended an act of kindness to someone else, and to what end? As it turns out, there can be tremendous merits and outcomes in paying forward a kindness received with a good deed to somebody else, especially when done out of gratitude. The concept of "Paying It Forward" is nothing new, but in our world, I believe we could do with more compassion and selflessness as it brings out the best in us.

The Art of Paying it Forward Without Spending a Dime

When we pay it forward we commit an act of selflessness that transcends our connection to other humans on the planet, elevating the human experience in a positive way. Whether it’s a showing of kindness, faith, or even compassion, it all makes a difference and can potentially trigger a chain reaction of reciprocated behavior.

The Power of Altruism

Classical economics adopts a model that says people are primarily driven by material self-interest. Political science assumes that people are driven to maximize their power. But this worldview is clearly wrong. In real life, the push of selfishness is matched by the pull of empathy and altruism. This is not Hallmark card sentimentalism but scientific fact: As babies our neural connections are built by love and care. We have evolved to be really good at cooperation and empathy. We are strongly motivated to teach and help others.

The Paying it Forward Paradox | Wayne Baker | TEDxUofM

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Justin Tan, Software Engineer

Ken is incredibly transparent about policy terms. He focuses on identifying my actual protection gaps rather than just trying to hit a sales. Ken is my go-to for insurance because he’s efficient and honest. He respects your time and your wallet, focusing on the right protection rather than the most expensive plan.

Jobu, Business Development Director

Ken is very experienced in financial planning and understands the market very well. His insights and knowledge of various segments can give you exponential growth to your monetary reserves. I strongly recommend Ken for a quick assessment to understand your needs and drive this further.

Dayantha, Software Engineer

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Ting Ting, Director

We have known Ken for many years and he is a man with great work ethic, integrity, and one of the nicest persons we know. He is very trustworthy and provides excellent service. He is very knowledgeable in his profession and able to make excellent counseling and advice all the time. Any time we have a question or concern with our insurance policies he works on our concerns right away and he is able to resolve any difficulties that might have arisen. We would say Ken is not only an insurance agent but also a true friend to us. We would recommend Ken to anyone without hesitation or reservation.

Aini, Legal Secretary

Ken is very detailed, listening and understanding my plans and budget to plan out accordingly. He explains all my insurance plans patiently, answering every question and helping me see other future options. Client-oriented and not pushy at all, he gives great advice and suggestions to stay on top of my finances.

Jude Lim, Medical Social Worker

I met Ken at a roadshow – I’m not someone who enjoys getting approached by insurance agents, but he was patient and kind, not pushy about just selling products. Three years on, he is a trusted advisor and friend. He plans for me at my pace, and I feel comfortable enough to communicate openly with him about my financial needs and goals as they evolve. During the more intense seasons of the COVID pandemic, I can fully focus on other aspects of my life such as work, fully trusting that Ken is taking care of my portfolios and plans. If you’re looking for anyone to provide financial advice that you can relate to, Ken’s your guy!